Random Ramblings

Hi, I'm Comforta(Blue)

Oops, my bad. Did i misspell that wrong?

I loved my outfit a few days ago, it was actually very simple.

Ripped jeans and a crop top. (very, "teenager" right?) Lol

& heels, of course.

The jeans are from: Asos

while the top is from: forever21.

(I don't remember where the heels are from, but i'll check)

My Day: Denim On Sweatpants Feat Lord Huron's (Amazeballs) Music!

From time to time, i like to experiment. Today was one of those days. I was on the fence about it, but i later turned out to like it. I wanted to meet up with a web designer on some minor updates i'd like to make on the blog.

Considered making a cover to Lord Huron's Ends Of The Earth.

Change Isn't Necessarily A Bad Thing.

well, Hi there everyone! before i go on.. an on about why i have not exactly posted in a while.. here's a little something for you guys.

Random Rambling's from myself by exactly 8:20pm.

feeling cool w my pink bandana.. and uneven eyebrows

Change is.. quite a funny thing. People go on and on about why they never want to change, or why they don't want the people they know turning out a certain way. But, you know what? it's all wrong. YES. All this while you've thought change was a bad thing, when on the contrary.. it's a good thing! I believe every day i wake up a new/different person from the person i was the day before. We all say we don't want change, whereas, change is the only thing in the world that is constant. i'm so amazed by life.. and by this world we live in. I'm just so excited, because i want to see myself in two days, in two weeks.. and in two years. I want to see the decisions i make, and also the mistakes. I want to laugh and smile at them, and say "oh, how much you've changed Fifunmi" You see, today i might not be making the right or the best decisions but i'm making them either way aren't I? because if these so called decisions turn out to be mistakes, i'm perfectly fine with that. Because i'm learning from them. I'm changing.. If you've noticed i haven't ever kept up a stable header for JanuaryEmber. Simply because i like change lol..

In my first year of Uni, so much has happened that i can't wait to look back when all these things become simple memories. I've met amazing people, lost friends.. and even made more friends. The more the merrier, right? I love being surrounded by people who make me laugh, and are so intellectual in their own human way. I met some awesome people in my first few weeks at school. I thought they were my, as you'd say "ride or die" i confided in them, told them secrets, shared with them so much. But of course, you can't ever be sure about people. They shall smile to your face, and pretend they understand your; guilt, sadness and happiness. But go behind your back and say only God knows what. I can only be so thankful that what happened had happened. Because it's life. Life teaches us lessons everyday. We can only choose to learn from th..

oh wow. This seems so brilliant.. and long.

I'll be done in a sec*

not to worry.

.. These mistakes. We all grow everyday. We all change everyday. And that's a good thing. Don't let anyone ever tell you how you've "Changed" and they don't like this "new you" (well, except this "new you" involves being a bad person and giving unnecessary attitude)

cheers to change.

14th December
My Typical Self, Getting All Emotional (Yes, I needed to Vent)

You know, i don't get it. I don't understand myself yet. I think i do, but then yet again, i think i don't. I've made so many mistakes in my life, you'd have thought I've learnt. And sometimes i really think i have, but times like this i don't think i actually have, i always see the good in people. I always try/want to believe this person is actually who they seem to be. But no, something happens, and it slaps me in the face (and really hard) and i realize I've been a complete idiot. You know sometimes i think being an idealist is a curse. I fall too hard too fast for people believing it would turn out like it does in the movies, like a fairy tale. That i'd walk away from an argument and then he'd come chasing after me. How stupid does that sound? Does it actually sound stupid? Does it? Why cant it honestly be like that? Movies are movies, and actors are just simply actors, yes. But can you really blame me for wanting all that? Maybe I've been fed a lot of bullshit about life. Maybe i need to start being realistic. I'm just so upset. I should listen to my friends more when they tell me to slow down. For once, i want someone to actually turn out to be the person they seemed to be at the very start. I live in a fairy tale. I dream too much. I'm a dreamer. If only you could see how my mind works. But then again, that makes it partially my fault doesn't it? Do i expect too much? I mean, fairy tales are about happy endings, yes? When at the end the prince comes riding a (lets say white, because a white horse just sounds so graceful) white horse, and comes to meet the girl. And then everything just turns out so beautiful. ERR wrong. Except that isn't how real life works lol. So is it my fault that since i walked away from the argument i expected him to run after me? (Oh God, i'm so corny. Forgive me) so, is that me expecting too much? Yeah? Well, except no. I only expect too much, because i give so much.

picture: wikiHow

what's happened has happened, and still no change. But at least i feel better.

Friday the 13th ;-)

The Wine Dress. + Say Hi to My Guest Blogger!

you're probably wondering.. "omgosh, where were you off too? a dinner?" no, i wasn't. Right before i changed into this i was wearing my (usual these days) sweatpants, and a large shirt i stole from my brothers wardrobe. Thing is.. I have no idea where to wear this dress to guys. It's upsetting. Having the perfect dress and not having anywhere to wear it too. Because of this dress, i've been thinking of planning a dinner. But no one wants to answer me Lol. I guess i'd figure something out. I don't have to worry about myself adding weight or any of that, because well.. I can eat a truck today, and i won't gain a pound. (okay, a truck? i'd probably gain a few pounds but you get me haha)

so it's safe to say, when I do find a place to wear this dress to? I'd take pictures. yes (my specialty) but i won't be uploading them here Lol. You guys are already seeing it.

anyway, moving on..

oh oh, i forgot i wasn't in sweatpants today lol. What i wore is below this.
But right now? yes, yes. that's what i have on.

My babygirl (aka guest blogger)

so, besides that i had the best time today! the best best best best. My guest blogger isn't actually a guest blogger lol. Although she says to tell you guys hi! I have the time of my life whenever i'm surrounded with a particular group of my friends. Today was so wonderful. I won't get into detail lmao. You never know what family member of mine would be creeping on this blog lol.

see you guys later!
xo

27TH September

Red Dress In A Gorgeous Room

okay, so today was good too. But no gorgeous bathroom stall, and i didn't get as much food as i did yesterday, i got to the party late, like 6pm, so how dare me ask for any specific kind of food, the food was almost finished. So i just nodded to anything they were going to get me. And guess what they got me, just the one food i don't like. Chinese food. Yes, i don't like chinese food, prawns are my only exception, but i didn't get prawns, i guess they were finished. I got chinese riceeeeeee. Ugh. I HATE chinese rice. But i had to try to eat it. I just ate half of it, i deserve a gold medal for that even. I had to wash it down with something. They now brought me some orange juice. I didn't want that, all i wanted was fanta. I'm a fanta girrrllllll. But no, i got juice, which i didn't finish either. So i just took puffpuff. (Which was so sweet just btw) what made me happy was that i remembered i had leftovers at home from the party last night, so i was just going to eat that when i got home.

Forced myself to eat half, i ate all the chicken though! Lol

Apart from that omgosh, the hall was so gorgeoussssssssss! Lovely chandeliers everywhere. Imagine seeing old women dancing to party bangers, i had to hold my laughter in. But why though? They were all family! There was some mad man who came to meet my cousins and i, saying he has a house in London, and money wasn't a problem to him. So why was he disturbing us? He now said he wanted to give my cousin a wife. Nigga fuq off. Lol

It was all so funny, i had a great day. The band was really awesome. Playing 80s and 90s music (which i loved) and then alot of party bangers of today. I'm blogging this from my phone actually, and that puff puff was sweet, i'm going to get another! X

Their playing girls just wanna have fun right now, and i want to jump up and dowwwwwn.

Ooh yeah, my puffpuff..

Bye

Aye, they've started playing yoruba jammmmmms. And in every song they say #Osinubi in it. Which makes the songs even better ;)

Man, i actually got here really late. Alot of people are leaving, but even at that i'd still probably leave at like 11pm. (Same as yesterday)

My cousin's bugging me to go dance now. And maybe i will. If i get $$$. Best part mate!

Naa, i'm not going to dance. My dress is too tight

I just saw a woman walk past w a tray full of fried rice, and what looked like barbeque chicken. Fml

Hmn, should i go dance? hmn.

It's all about the benjamins bbbyyyy.

I just saw a woman get 50s out of her purse lol. Fifunmi go dance!

My cousins just left me. No one begged me to wear a tight dress. If i just komole now, my dress could rip. Lol alright, their back now. Cowards!

Are these people mad? Where's my rice and barbeque chicken?

The mad man just came back loooool. My cousin's and i are in tears.

Oooh, these yoruba songs are getting me pumpedddd upppp

10 minutes later i'm still in my seat. Intead for me to go and dance, so i can pour it up and watch it all fall out. I suck

Their really giving out a lot of freebies, all i've gotten is a tray. Yeah, so i can put money on it. Money i shall get if i eventually get up the courage to go dance

But why am i like this, my cousin just stood up and went to dance, and she's got almost 25 hundred..

Nope make that about 6 thousand now.

My mom's gone to dance now aswell, i succckkkkkkk. My excuse is my dress is tight. Yes! Yes

some girl's just told me she loves my necklace, well thats cheered me up a bit

so i went to dance. I didnt get as much as my cousin's did because i went too late. I got about 35 hundred. I had a great time dancing lol! #Familytime #TheBestTime

Only picture i could take before i left, i was in a hurry. Bleh

I remember here the song 'Party Hard' by doneo was being played. Everyone stood up lol

Tried to take a picture, so you guys could see how beautiful it was, but my camera didn't do such a good job. It looks all blurry, but trust me, it was gorgeous!

So yeah, that's what i was up to today. I just got home, and it's about 12am now. Bloody tired x

26th September

White Dress In A Bathroom Stall

Hey guys! How's everyone doing? So well today was pretty boring for me. Up until about 6pm when i decided to follow my mom to some family party. Truth be told i only decided to go for the food. But then it turned out to be an amazing day! My cousins who i hadn't seen for about almost 8 years, i saw them today. It was really cooooooooool. My day was really good.

And i really didn't know what to name this post, so that's what i came up with lol

Now, i decided to wear a dress, i didn't want to look to formal, so i decided to wear my Playful Asos bodycon aztec dress. This is one of my Favourite dresses, I tried to take clear pictures but unfortunately i couldn't because i was home alone.

The Dress is from Asos and the Purse is from Atmosphere, and my shoes are from Jessica Simpson but that isn't showing in any of the pictures lol. I'll try to take a full picture next time guys!

So yeahhhh, my day turned out realllllly good. At the party there was this really cool bathroom (Lol, yes. Bathroom) it was one of those bathroom stalls you hire for parties, and this one was so gorgeous! Lol. So so gorgeous. The party i was in was outdoors so there was no air conditioning (except it was actually really so cold because it was night time) But then the bathroom stalls had air conditioning and they were playing 90s music, it was so nice, i stayed in there for about 30 minutes lol.

The bathroom was really so sexy lol. That's me in it in the picture above.

I would have taken other pictures but i had been in there for about 35 minutes, and some lady had walked in (to use the bathroom maybe or to take pictures in it like me haha!) So i had to casually drop my camera in my purse and act like i had been washing my hand, and then i left :(

Apart from that, my day was absolutely great. There's supposed to be another family party today, hopefully i'd be going for that if i've got nothing planned (and these days, i usually don't)

HOW I MAKE MY PANCAKES FROM SCRATCH

STEP 1

Get a camera and one of your friends to take random pictures of you while making it. Because i mean, you're awesome. And you need to take pictures.. Just because!

What you need is: Pepper, 11 Cubes of SHUGGGAAA, Nutmeg, And Milk. And the most important of all, Flour.

And yep, that's it. No, i'm not joking.. that's all you need.

So yes, you've got your suger, nutmeg, and pepper. Ooh, where's the flour?

Yes there it is. That's about everything, yep. So when.. No waaait. Where's the milk?

Ah, there we go. Gotten all these? Great, next step..

STEP 2

I really don't know how much pepper or nutmeg you should add. I just usually use my instincts. To be on the safer side get a tea spoon, so yes add a tea spoon of nutmeg, and then pepper. Unless you're the type who likes A LOT of pepper, then you can add as much as you can.

This is what it should look like. All i added here was the pepper. With the flour

Here i've added the nutmeg

And right here i've added 11 cubes of sugar to the combo lol. 11 Cubes because i made 2 cups. Ooh i didn't even speak about that! I usually make 2 cups, 2 cups would get you about 5/6 pancakes. Depending on how large you like your pancakes.

Feeling like a CHEF here

And then you fill a cup with water, and pour it into your bowl. then you mix itttttttttt. Till it looks good lol After doing this you dance and dance and dance to john legend's: Love in the future album.

Yep.

After you're done mixing it, you pour it into a blender. And then get an egg, and break it into the blender. I used one egg because i made 2 cups(of flour) if you want to make 3/4 cups then everything is going to be totally different. Like the amount of nutmeg/pepper/sugar you'd add, and then you'd probably have to break about 2 eggs into the blender full of your about to be made pancakes!